Check Your Life Chart

<body topmargin=0 leftmargin=0 marginheight=0 marginwidth=0> <table cellpadding=0 cellspacing=0 border=0><tr> <td valign="top" height=90 BGCOLOR="#006699" TEXT="#080000" background="0a9785a3.jpg"> <div> <FONT SIZE="5" COLOR="#FFFFFF" FACE="Arial" ><B>The Healing Practice</B></FONT><B>    </B><B> |     </B><A HREF="index.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="The Healing Practice"><U><B>home</B></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id28.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="About the Practice"><U><B>About the Practice</B></U></A><B> - </B><A HREF="id4.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Acceuil en français"><U><B>Acceuil en français</B></U></A><B> - </B><A HREF="id34.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Book a Session / Contact"><U><B>Book a Session / Contact</B></U></A><B> - </B><A HREF="clinical_hypnosis___nlp.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Clinical Hypnosis NLP"><U><B>Clinical Hypnosis & NLP</B></U></A><B> - </B><A HREF="therapies___clinical_hypnosis__nlp__gestalt.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Therapies "><U><B>Therapies </B></U></A><B> - </B><A HREF="stop_smoking_therapy.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Stop Smoking Therapy"><U><B>Stop Smoking Therapy</B></U></A><B> - </B><A HREF="id55.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Free Self Help Tests "><U><B>Free Self Help Tests </B></U></A><B> - </B><A HREF="id36.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Meditation Notes"><U><B>Meditation Notes</B></U></A><B> - </B><A HREF="id35.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Links Resources"><U><B>Links & Resources</B></U></A></div> </td> </tr><tr> <td valign="top" height=390 BGCOLOR="#CCCCCC" TEXT="#080000"> <div> <FONT SIZE="5" COLOR="#000000" FACE="Arial" ><B>The Healing Practice</B></FONT>    </div> <bR> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> <A HREF="quick_anger_test.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Quick Anger Test"><U><U>Quick Anger Test</U></U></A><U>   |   </U><A HREF="life_quality_stress_test.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Life Quality Stress Test"><U><U>Life Quality Stress Test</U></U></A><U>   |   </U><A HREF="id52.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Quick Stress Test"><U><U>Quick Stress Test</U></U></A><U>   |   </U><U>Check Your Life Chart</U><U>   |   </U><A HREF="success.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Success"><U><U>Success</U></U></A></div> <bR> <bR> <div> Check Your Life Chart</div> <bR> <div> Complete the question fields and fill in your gaps - change your entries, and change them again and again, until they make wholesome sense. Remember - anything can be changed - anything put to advantage and benefit. <B>The things you do now affect past, present and future patterns alike.</B></div> <bR> <div> All that is done, can be undone - nothing has to stay the same.</div> <bR> <div> Perfection and balance, in any area, lies in how and for what purposes you put things together, not in the things you put together.</div> <bR> <bR> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> <B>CHART I</B></div> <bR> <div> <TABLE BORDER="2" CELLPADDING="2" CELLSPACING="1" WIDTH="857" BORDERCOLORLIGHT="#330099" BORDERCOLORDARK="#3300CC" FRAME="BOX" RULES="ALL" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0" > <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 39 WIDTH="166"><div> <B>PRIMARY LEITMOTIV (PLM)</B></div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="177"><div> <B>SECONDARY LEITMOTIV (SLM)</B></div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP><NOBR><div> <B>THEMATIC OPTIONS</B></div> </NOBR></tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="156"><div> <B>ENTRANCE</B></div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="157"><div> <B>EXIT</B></div> </tD> </tR> <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 206 WIDTH="166"><div> the goal to be achieved - what is a recurring theme/interest in your life. Look beyond the means like professions, etc. look at what they mean - they are means to achieve. </div> <bR> <div> Example: education is a humanitarian goal. </div> <bR> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="177"><div> the attraction which often detracts you from pursuing your PLM. It helps you learn about priorities, offers challenges and opportunities. SLM is often a personality trait. </div> <bR> <div> Example: solitude is not necessarily a supportive aspect of teaching, but may be educational.</div> <bR> <bR> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="161"><div> stand for your life context, which lets you battle it out in certain areas of opposition and/or concurrence. The most common thematic options in western culture could be: health, love, family, spirituality, profession, society, finances, etc.</div> <bR> <bR> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="156"><div> - opportunity points are built into your chart.  If you follow your instincts, certain strands of events converge to a point which requires decisions based on what you have learned. </div> <bR> <bR> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="157"><div> - life or death moments when you can decide whether your situation is untenable, have fulfilled your goal,  or wish to go on learning. Look at accidents, illness, war, or even the murder, you thwarted to go on.</div> </tD> </tR> <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 64 WIDTH="166"><bR> <div> Are you a Giver?</div> <bR> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="177"><bR> <div> Are you a Taker?</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="161"><div> Where are your issues and concerns repeatedly concentrated?</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="156"><div> What opportunities are you aware of? What have you missed? </div> <div> What taken?</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="157"><div> Did you have near miss/death experiences?</div> </tD> </tR> </TABLE></div> <bR> <bR> <div> <B>CHART II</B></div> <bR> <div> An appropriate context is required for <B>CHART I</B> to work. To think that you are a simple accident of two human beings coming together in some way, and here you are against your will and say-so in some messy times, can blighten your entire life. </div> <div> It too appears onerous. It also seems to remove a sense of personal responsibility and purpose in your life. </div> <bR> <div> Consider that you had a choice in the matter. The choice of context was made to afford you the best possible option to achieve and learn. Of course, reality being, and free will of choice making having, what it is, your elemental stakes are changing by the minute. Although a certain path is perceived and thematically mapped before entering the world, based on prevalent developments, interference by others can change a personal evolutionary theme and goal drastically, inclusive of world events. </div> <bR> <bR> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> <TABLE BORDER="2" CELLPADDING="2" CELLSPACING="1" WIDTH="959" BORDERCOLORLIGHT="#330099" BORDERCOLORDARK="#3300CC" FRAME="BOX" RULES="ALL" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0" > <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 57 WIDTH="165"><div> <B>PARENTS</B></div> <div> <B>FAMILY</B></div> <div> <B>ANCESTORS</B></div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP><NOBR><div> <B>SIBLING </B></div> <div> <B>FRIEND or FOE</B></div> <div> <B>LOVERS</B></div> </NOBR></tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="147"><div> <B>PHYSICALITY</B></div> <div> <B>BODY</B></div> <div> <B>ABILITY</B></div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="147"><div> <B>ENTRY POINT</B></div> <div> <B>TIME/DATE</B></div> <div> <B>PLACE</B></div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP><NOBR><div> <B>JOURNEY POINTS</B></div> <bR> </NOBR></tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="151"><div> <B>CHARACTER</B></div> </tD> </tR> <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 127 WIDTH="165"><div> are chosen not necessarily because they represent your affinity, but because they provide the causal inheritance on which your interests can evolve.</div> <bR> <bR> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="144"><div> provide opportunities to right issues, enhance character traits or to embark on new collaborative ventures, as support or opponent.</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="147"><div> physical appearance, from hair, eye colour to body type and ability, race or gender provide personality vehicle to interact with the context.</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="147"><div> where and when you come into the world determines the general prevailing social, cultural and religious order or trend you follow or oppose.</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="158"><div> times, places, events, people, spiritual or physical experiences made during your life time determine and format emotional impressions on your personality.</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="151"><div> preferences, strength, weaknesses, flaws, skills, talents, competence or its lack, sense of humour or melancholy compliment behaviour</div> </tD> </tR> <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 91 WIDTH="165"><div> What is your relationship in family matters? </div> <div> What conclusions can you draw from that?</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="144"><div> Who enters and leaves your life? </div> <div> What</div> <div> impact does your relationship have on your wellness?</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="147"><div> What do you think is the purpose of health or sickness and how do either relate to your decisions making or mental state?</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="147"><div> How did your growing up influence your values?</div> <div> How much of that do you still accept or have discarded?</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="158"><div> Which experiences deeply influenced you and which less, but they still linger? </div> <div> How is it that you can relate to them and what is the affinity played out?</div> </tD> <tD VALIGN=TOP WIDTH="151"><div> How many things about yourself do you consider positive or negative traits?</div> <div> How do you use them as strengths or weaknesses in your life?</div> </tD> </tR> </TABLE></div> <bR> <bR> <div> <IMG SRC="0ab1c040.jpg" border=0 width="540" height="4" ALIGN="BOTTOM" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0"></div> <bR> <bR> <bR> <div> n</div> <div> <U>    P    </U></div> <div> © 2003-2008 eXTempora limited - All rights reserved.</div> <div> Unauthorized reproduction or distribution of any component of this site, in whole, in part, or as a derivative, </div> <div> is in violation of applicable US federal copyright laws and international copyright treaties.</div> <bR> <bR> <div>  <A HREF="http://www.copyscape.com/"><IMG SRC="http://banners.copyscape.com/images/cs-wh-234x16.gif" ALT="Content copyright protected by Copyscape website plagiarism search" TITLE="Do not copy content from the page. 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